Anybody want to keep Alyssa?

I am so angry right now. I was just talking on the phone with Mike and looked at Alyssa. She was combing her hair. I thought she was being a good girl.....NOPE! I realized she had cut her bangs. Holy crap. I want to kill her - ok, that is harsh. I really don't want to do that. I can just be mad! When I gave her a bath this morning and washed her hair, I thought some of her bangs seemed really short - I just disregarded my thoughts and knocked them up to the short undergrowth of the bangs. I was wrong and should have known it right then. Now that her hair is dry I can see the damage. I asked her why she did it and she told me her bangs were too long. She told me she used Gavin's scissors from his coloring box. Sure enough, I found the hair on the floor. Why did she have to cut it so stupid? I can't even fix it......why is she the way she is? She has been a challenge from the start! I thought we were past the whole "cut your own hair" phase. It has been two years since she did it last. I am fuming and speechless. I told her to look at herself in the mirror to see how bad it looks. She went in the bathroom and told me "I like it!"